Siona wrote:
You might also want to look into the honey jar family of spells. The basic idea is writing the names of the people you want to 'sweeten' onto a bit of paper, and putting it in a jar and covering it with honey, sugar, or some other sweetener. (Or sometimes just putting the paper under your sugar jar, or whatever else.) This is supposed to make the person 'sweeten' to you so they start to look past the negative stuff and focus more on the sweet about you.I do the same thing but besides from writing the names of the offenders, I also include positive things about them. For me, the destructive power of negative speech is transcended only by the beneficial power of positive speech. Thinking or speaking positively about people, especially those who are offending us benefits ourselves too.
