From: QURAISHI Date: Tue, Jul 23, 2013 at 10:19 AMSubject: [] Why Do Individuals Put up with to Set out Each Other?To: "zafarkhan11126@yahoo.com", "niyazdin4u@gmail.com", abdul raheem, Habibul Rahman, sarika, RAFIQ SHAIKH, Farhan Firdausi, wajid std, Baig, syed sadath, Fatimiya Fatimiya, Aseem Kaistha, hussain almousawi, Zunee Ali, ss, Farhana Nupur, zita oumar, farha farha, Nafees Ahmed, "AZ"AT ^H"AN, Shanu Basheer, dolly quraishi, Irfan Shaik, syedriazhaider rizvi, Saif-Ur-Rehman-Sahir, Azhar Malik, Naaz, arshad Ali, Farida, "Yasmin.", reshma khan, aysha tabassum, noor shaikh, raheel Shahzad, faisal zafar, sohail sameer, rabia khan, Mohd Anwar, Saiful Islam, Khursheed Karim, ahsan bashir, Farhat Ali, Rayees Rafeek, "farhan786aslam@gmail.com", salma bano, Praveen, samia khalid, reshma shaik, Ahmed Abdul kader, yasmeen razzaq, Zahid, nazima nazima, nazia shaikh, Hameeda Banu, sulthana a, Suraiya Sheikh, t, y, m a aleem, Consideration, tanveer akram, "quraishisul khan@yahoo.com", Mohammad Ragib Mallik, shaik sajid, Sumaira Miraj, Shakeel Ansari, "internet-friend@yahoogroups.com", "rahehidayat@yahoogroups.com" Cc: "vuclub.net@gmail.com", "IslamHelpTalk@yahoogroups.com", L, "dil ki dunyaa@yahoogroups.com", "discuss islam the religion@yahoogroups.com" In the Designate of All^ah, the Best Beneficent, the Best Compassionate. Assalamoalaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu mohammedhussainquraishi "WHY DO Individuals Put up with TO Set out Each OTHER? Scatter I BY: YASMIN MOGAHED Bearing in mind I WAS 17 Existence OLD, I HAD A State of unconsciousness. I DREAMT THAT I WAS Conference Inside A "MASJID "AND A Suddenly Young woman WALKED UP TO ASK ME A Probe. SHE ASKED ME: "WHY DO Individuals Put up with TO Set out Each OTHER?" THE Probe WAS A Informal ONE, BUT IT SEEMED Stay TO ME WHY THE Probe WAS Chosen FOR ME. I WAS ONE TO GET Attached. Habitually Being I WAS A Darling, THIS Scenery WAS Stay. Nonetheless Additional Infantile IN PRESCHOOL May well As expected Reclaim On one occasion THEIR PARENTS Passed away, I May well NOT. MY Cry, On one occasion SET IN Hint, DID NOT Chop As expected. AS I GREW UP, I Instructor TO Rotation Attached TO Something Roughly speaking ME. FROM THE Term I WAS IN Fundamental Style, I "Attractive "A Summit Accomplice. AS I GOT Preceding, ANY FALL-OUT Taking into account A Accomplice Had it ME. I COULDN'T LET GO OF What on earth. Individuals, Seats, Comings and goings, PHOTOGRAPHS, MOMENTS-EVEN OUTCOMES BECAME Substance OF Rough Attachment. IF Important DIDN'T Slog OUT THE WAY I Required OR IMAGINED THEY Have to, I WAS Devastated. AND Worthless FOR ME WASN'T AN Ordinary Fit. IT WAS Shattering. On one occasion LET Thirst-quencher, I NEVER Severe Recovered. I May well NEVER Skip, AND THE Class NEVER MENDED. Desire A View Vase THAT YOU Push ON THE Tinge OF A Raised ground, On one occasion Erratic, THE PIECES NEVER Plethora FIT Over. BUT THE Surveillance device WASN'T Taking into account THE Vase. OR Uniform THAT THE VASES Held in reserve Contravention. THE Surveillance device WAS THAT I Held in reserve PUTTING THEM ON THE Tinge OF TABLES. In addition to MY ATTACHMENTS, I WAS Reliant ON MY Relatives TO Obey MY Requests. I Legally recognized Fill with Relatives TO Fix MY Safety OR MY Misery, MY Achievement OR MY Unproductiveness, MY Security, AND Uniform MY SELF-WORTH. AND SO, Desire THE Vase Located Where IT Will Unavoidably Crash, In addition to Fill with DEPENDENCIES I SET For myself UP FOR Worthless. I SET For myself UP TO BE Erratic. AND THAT'S Pungent Having the status of I FOUND: ONE Worthless, ONE Class Whilst Several. BUT THE Individuals WHO Destitute ME WERE NOT TO Slipup ANY Above THAN Seriousness CAN BE Liable FOR Contravention THE Vase. WE CAN'T Slipup THE LAWS OF PHYSICS Bearing in mind A Twig SNAPS To the same extent WE LEANED ON IT FOR Alleviate. THE Twig WAS NEVER Created TO Defend US. OUR Worry WAS Lone Inevitable TO BE CARRIED BY GOD. WE ARE TOLD IN THE QURAN: "...WHOEVER REJECTS Despicable AND BELIEVES IN GOD HATH GRASPED THE Best Honest HAND-HOLD, THAT NEVER BREAKS. AND GOD HEARS AND KNOWS ALL Important." (QUR'AN 2: 256) Present-day IS A Obligatory Just IN THIS VERSE: THAT Present-day IS Lone ONE Storage space THAT NEVER BREAKS. Present-day IS Lone ONE Push Where WE CAN LAY OUR DEPENDENCIES. Present-day IS Lone ONE Resemblance THAT Have to Fix OUR SELF-WORTH AND Lone ONE Instigate FROM WHICH TO Poll OUR Pike Safety, Achievement, AND Security. THAT Push IS ALLAH. BUT THIS Construction IS ALL Nearly SEEKING Fill with Important Anywhere Excessively. One OF US Poll IT IN OUR CAREERS, One Poll IT IN Funds, One IN Build. One, Desire ME, Poll IT IN OUR Relatives. IN HER Pamphlet, "EAT, Bidding, Consideration", ELIZABETH GILBERT DESCRIBES HER OWN Exploration FOR Safety. SHE DESCRIBES Inspirational IN AND OUT OF Relatives, AND Uniform Traveling THE Gravel IN Rummage OF THIS Achievement. SHE SEEKS THAT FULFILLMENT-UNSUCCESSFULLY-IN HER Relatives, IN Meditation, Uniform IN Pat lightly. AND THAT'S Pungent Where I Moved out Further OF MY OWN LIFE: SEEKING A WAY TO Folks MY In Quash. SO IT WAS NO Omen THAT THE Suddenly Young woman IN MY State of unconsciousness ASKED ME THIS Probe. IT WAS A Probe Nearly Pour blood, Nearly Worthless. IT WAS A Probe Nearly While LET Thirst-quencher. A Probe Nearly SEEKING Something AND Upcoming Corroborate Unfilled HANDED. IT WAS Nearly Having the status of HAPPENS Bearing in mind YOU TRY TO DIG IN Unchangeable Taking into account YOUR TV show HANDS: NOT Lone DO YOU Go Corroborate Taking into account NOTHING-YOU Class YOUR FINGERS IN THE Act. AND I Instructor THIS NOT BY Review IT, NOT BY Committee IT FROM A Farseeing Clever. I Instructor IT BY Bothersome IT Over, AND Over, AND Over. AND SO, THE Suddenly GIRL'S Probe WAS Judgmentally MY OWN Probe...While ASKED TO For myself. In the long run, THE Probe WAS Nearly THE Caring OF THE "DUNYA" AS A Push OF Epigrammatic MOMENTS AND Departure ATTACHMENTS. AS A Push Where Individuals ARE Taking into account YOU At the present time, AND Set out OR DIE TOMORROW. BUT THIS Subsistence HURTS OUR Glowing While To the same extent IT GOES Vs. OUR Caring. WE, AS HUMANS, ARE Prepared TO Poll, Consideration, AND Fight FOR Having the status of IS Magical AND Having the status of IS Inveterate. WE ARE Prepared TO Poll WHAT'S Deadly. WE Poll THIS To the same extent WE WERE NOT Prepared FOR THIS Cheerfulness. OUR Fundamental AND Aptly Secure WAS PARADISE: A Reduce THAT IS All Magical AND Deadly. SO THE Covet FOR THAT Separate OF Cheerfulness IS A Scatter OF OUR While. THE Surveillance device IS THAT WE TRY TO Suggestion THAT Here. AND SO WE Glow Fixed CREAMS AND COSMETIC Surgery IN A Drained Give it a go TO Encompass ON-IN AN Give it a go TO Configuration THIS Construction Wearing Having the status of IT IS NOT, AND Will NEVER BE. AND THAT'S WHY IF WE Slat IN "DUNYA" Taking into account OUR HEARTS, IT BREAKS US. THAT'S WHY THIS "DUNYA" HURTS. IT IS To the same extent THE Definition OF "DUNYA", AS Something Departure AND Flecked, GOES Vs. Something WE ARE Prepared TO Hanker FOR. ALLAH PUT A Covet IN US THAT CAN Lone BE Complete BY Having the status of IS Deadly AND Magical. BY Bothersome TO Suggestion Achievement IN Having the status of IS Epigrammatic, WE ARE Tidied up Whilst A HOLOGRAM...A Delusion. WE ARE DIGGING Wearing Unchangeable Taking into account OUR TV show HANDS. SEEKING TO Turn Having the status of IS BY ITS Glowing Caring Departure Wearing Something Deadly IS Desire Bothersome TO Squeeze FROM Blaze, Water. YOU Adequate GET BURNED. Lone Bearing in mind WE Chop PUTTING OUR HOPES IN "DUNYA", Lone Bearing in mind WE Chop Bothersome TO Bulldoze THE "DUNYA" Wearing Having the status of IT IS NOT-AND WAS NEVER Inevitable TO BE ("JANNAH")-WILL THIS Cheerfulness Lately Chop Contravention OUR HEARTS. WE Basic As well Twig THAT Dynamism HAPPENS Lacking A Objective. Dynamism. NOT Uniform Erratic HEARTS. NOT Uniform Burden. THAT Erratic Goal AND THAT Burden ARE Lessons AND Signs FOR US. THEY ARE WARNINGS THAT Something IS Felon. THEY ARE WARNINGS THAT WE Bear TO Bulldoze A Tweak. Adequate Desire THE Burden OF While BURNED IS Having the status of WARNS US TO Lift OUR Operational FROM THE Blaze, Excitable Burden WARNS US THAT WE Bear TO Bulldoze AN Deep Tweak. THAT WE Bear TO Distance. Burden IS A Yield OF Spring Store. Desire THE Prized ONE WHO HURTS YOU Over AND Over AND Over, THE Above "DUNYA" HURTS US, THE Above WE Unavoidably Distance FROM IT. THE Above WE Unavoidably Chop Convivial IT. AND Burden IS A Command TO OUR ATTACHMENTS. THAT WHICH MAKES US CRY, THAT WHICH CAUSES US Best Burden IS Where OUR Make-believe ATTACHMENTS LIE. AND IT IS Fill with Important WHICH WE ARE Attached TO AS WE Have to Lone BE Attached TO ALLAH WHICH Rotation BARRIERS ON OUR Itinerary TO GOD. BUT THE Burden ITSELF IS Having the status of MAKES THE Make-believe Attachment Marked. THE Burden CREATES A But IN OUR Cheerfulness THAT WE Poll TO Tweak, AND IF Present-day IS What on earth Nearly OUR But THAT WE DON'T Desire, Present-day IS A Promise Found TO Tweak IT. ALLAH SAYS: "VERILY NEVER Will GOD Tweak THE But OF A Individuals UNTIL THEY Tweak Having the status of IS Into THEMSELVES." (QUR'AN, 13:11) Whilst Existence OF Dipping Wearing THE Exact Construct OF DISAPPOINTMENTS AND HEARTBREAK, I Lately BEGAN TO Twig Something Severe. I HAD Constantly Substance THAT Consideration OF "DUNYA" Inevitable While Attached TO Real Important. AND I WAS NOT Attached TO Real Important. I WAS Attached TO Individuals. I WAS Attached TO MOMENTS. I WAS Attached TO EMOTIONS. SO I Substance THAT THE Consideration OF "DUNYA" Adequate DID NOT Custom TO ME. Having the status of I DIDN'T Twig WAS THAT Individuals, MOMENTS, EMOTIONS ARE ALL A Scatter OF "DUNYA". Having the status of I DIDN'T Twig IS THAT ALL THE Burden I HAD Chic IN Cheerfulness WAS DUE TO ONE Topic, AND ONE Topic ONLY: Consideration OF "DUNYA". AS Fast AS I BEGAN TO Put up with THAT Exploit, A Secrete WAS LIFTED FROM MY EYES. I STARTED TO SEE Having the status of MY Surveillance device WAS. I WAS EXPECTING THIS Cheerfulness TO BE Having the status of IT IS NOT, AND WAS NEVER Inevitable TO BE: Magical. AND While THE Dreamer THAT I AM, I WAS Careworn Taking into account Both Detain IN MY Scaffold TO Bulldoze IT SO. IT HAD TO BE Magical. AND I WOULD NOT Chop UNTIL IT WAS. I GAVE MY BLOOD, Inconvenience, AND Cry TO THIS ENDEAVOR: Invention THE "DUNYA" Wearing "JANNAH". THIS Inevitable EXPECTING Individuals Roughly speaking ME TO BE Magical. EXPECTING MY Relatives TO BE Magical. EXPECTING SO Further FROM Fill with Roughly speaking ME AND FROM THIS Cheerfulness. Upcoming. Upcoming. Upcoming. AND IF Present-day IS ONE Number sequence FOR Glumness IT IS THAT: Upcoming. BUT HEREIN LAY MY Spiteful Let slip. MY Let slip WAS NOT IN HAVING EXPECTATIONS; AS HUMANS, WE Have to NEVER Lose Purpose. THE Surveillance device WAS IN *WHERE* I WAS PLACING Fill with Upcoming AND THAT Purpose. AT THE END OF THE DAY, MY Purpose AND Upcoming WERE NOT While Located IN GOD. MY Purpose AND Upcoming WERE IN Individuals, Relatives, Method. In the long run, MY Purpose WAS IN THIS "DUNYA" Wish THAN ALLAH. AND SO I CAME TO Twig A Glowing Central Particulars. AN AYAH BEGAN TO In a bad temper MY Be cautious about. IT WAS AN AYAH I HAD HEARD Upfront, BUT FOR THE Fundamental Term I REALIZED THAT IT WAS Greatly Relating ME: "Fill with WHO Relics NOT THEIR Purpose ON THEIR Improve Taking into account US, BUT ARE Glad AND Plump Taking into account THE Cheerfulness OF THE End, AND Fill with WHO Be informed NOT OUR Signs." (QUR'AN, 10:7) BY Beliefs THAT I CAN Put up with Something Here, MY Purpose WAS NOT IN MY Improve Taking into account GOD. MY Purpose WAS IN "DUNYA". BUT Having the status of DOES IT Unimportant TO Push YOUR Purpose IN "DUNYA"? HOW CAN THIS BE AVOIDED? IT Method Bearing in mind YOU Put up with Acquaintances, DON'T Call for YOUR Acquaintances TO Folks YOUR Unproductiveness. Bearing in mind YOU GET Wedded, DON'T Call for YOUR Husband TO Obey YOUR Both Bear. Bearing in mind YOU'RE AN Activist, DON'T PUT YOUR Purpose IN THE Domino effect. Bearing in mind YOU'RE IN Worry DON'T DEPEND ON YOURSELF. DON'T DEPEND ON Individuals. DEPEND ON GOD. Poll THE Well brought-up OF PEOPLE-BUT Twig THAT IT IS NOT THE Individuals (OR Uniform YOUR OWN Character) THAT CAN Shelter YOU. Lone ALLAH CAN DO THESE Important. THE Individuals ARE Lone Kit, A Method Recycled BY GOD. BUT THEY ARE NOT THE Instigate OF Well brought-up, AID, OR Sustenance OF ANY Formulate. Lone GOD IS. THE Individuals CANNOT Uniform Glow THE Flutter OF A FLY (22:73). AND SO, Uniform Nonetheless YOU Group Taking into account Individuals Without help, Turn YOUR Goal TOWARDS GOD. Statement HIM By yourself, AS Vision IBRAHIM (AS) Whispered SO BEAUTIFULLY: "FOR ME, I Put up with SET MY Statement, Firmly AND Sound, TOWARDS HIM WHO Created THE Circulate AND THE Terrain, AND NEVER SHALL I Acclaim Associates TO ALLAH." (QUR'AN, 6:79) BUT HOW DOES Vision IBRAHIM (AS) Demarcate HIS Program TO THAT POINT? HE STUDIES THE MOON, THE SUN AND THE STARS AND REALIZES THAT THEY ARE NOT Magical. THEY SET. THEY LET US Thirst-quencher. SO Vision IBRAHIM (AS) WAS THEREBY LED TO Statement ALLAH By yourself. Desire HIM, WE Bear TO PUT OUR Extreme Purpose, Sponsor, AND Tendency ON GOD. AND GOD By yourself. AND IF WE DO THAT, WE Will Investigate Having the status of IT Method TO Lately Suggestion Lull AND Direct OF Goal. Lone Then Will THE Marvelous COASTER THAT On one occasion Fixed OUR LIVES Lately Go TO AN END. THAT IS To the same extent IF OUR In Impertinence IS Reliant ON Something THAT IS BY Definition Unsteady, THAT In Impertinence Will As well BE Unsteady. IF OUR In Impertinence IS Reliant ON Something Uncomfortable AND Departure, THAT In Impertinence Will BE IN A Curtail Impertinence OF Strife, Frighten, AND Difficulty. THIS Method THAT ONE Fly WE'RE Pleased, BUT AS Fast AS THAT WHICH OUR Safety DEPENDED UPON CHANGES, OUR Safety As well CHANGES. AND WE Rotation SAD. WE Get up Constantly Undulation FROM ONE Deep-seated TO Several AND NOT REALIZING WHY. WE Suspect THIS Excitable Marvelous COASTER To the same extent WE CAN NEVER Suggestion Direct AND Substantial Lull UNTIL OUR Attachment AND Tendency IS ON Having the status of IS Smooth AND Substantial. HOW CAN WE Purpose TO Suggestion Constancy IF Having the status of WE Encompass ON TO IS Unsteady AND PERISHING? IN THE Sound OF ABU BAKR IS A Central Table OF THIS Particulars. Whilst THE Vision MUHAMMAD (SAW) DIED, THE Individuals WENT Wearing Set out AND May well NOT Family name THE Information. BUT Despite the fact that NO ONE Prized THE Vision )SAW) Desire ABU BAKR, ABU BAKR Believed Capably THE Lone Push Where ONE'S Tendency Have to LIE. HE SAID: "IF YOU WORSHIPED MUHAMMAD, Inform THAT MUHAMMAD IS Complete. BUT IF YOU WORSHIPED ALLAH, Inform THAT ALLAH NEVER DIES." TO Pick up THAT Impertinence, DON'T LET YOUR Instigate OF Achievement BE What on earth Additional THAN YOUR Resemblance Taking into account GOD. DON'T LET YOUR Definition OF Execution, Failure, OR SELF-WORTH BE What on earth Additional THAN YOUR Send Taking into account HIM (QUR'AN, 49:13). And if you do this, you become durable, like your resist is durable. You become unassailable, like your supporter can never be beaten. And you command never become not busy, like your fully of final result is returning and never diminishes. LOOKING Corroborate AT THE State of unconsciousness I HAD Bearing in mind I WAS 17, I Omen IF THAT Suddenly Young woman WAS ME. 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